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We know now through responses that this is not the case. So, when do you take a look at what your needs are and realize that they aren't met? When do you weigh commitment higher than sexual indulgence? My partners have all acknowledged this. In fact, the refrain I keep hearing -- or sometimes overhearing when they're talking to friends -- is that I'm "like a dude Wanting serious women only it comes to sex.
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